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Improving your social media habits: 5 tips

Improving your social media habits: 5 tips

Improving your social media habits: 5 tips

Social media is a paradox. It can bring us closer to others, but it can also leave us feeling inadequate and lonely. It can help us develop ourselves, or could lead us down the path of social media burnout.

The good news is that we can choose how social media affects our well-being. In this article, we explore some concrete steps we can take to make social media our friend.

Setting boundaries with social media

To create a healthier relationship with our mobile devices and social media, we need to set boundaries. The first step is becoming aware of the amount of time we currently invest in social media. Certain mobile devices such as iPhones have a built-in setting allowing you to monitor your screen time, but if your phone doesn’t have this feature, you can download apps that can quantify the data for you.

The second step is to set a limit for the number of hours or minutes you wish to spend on social media platforms every day. You can choose a limit that you are comfortable with - it could be three hours or 30 minutes. You can also set specific allotted times in your schedule for ‘social media downtime.’ This way, you can devise a schedule where, perhaps, you just use social media for two hours in the evenings.

It can be challenging to cut down on social media; after all, it can be addictive. You can set small, achievable goals at first where you cut down your limits slowly. For example, one week, you might cut it down to two hours a day, while the next week to one hour. Instagram and other apps have a setting where you can state the amount of time you want to use it per day, and when you have exceeded that limit, they will notify you. Other applications, such as One sec, will pop up when you open a social media app and ask you to pause, take a deep breath and then decide if you want to open it.

Create distance with your phone

Sometimes even the proximity of our phone can prompt us to pick it up. We unconsciously notice the phone lying next to us, and we grab it out of habit. Therefore, one good way to keep to our set limits is to place our phone far away from us or even hide it. It might sound silly, but when the phone is out of sight, we can focus more on other things and forget about it.

Unfollow accounts that don't make you happy

Social media detoxing does not simply refer to spending time away from your platforms; it also means taking some time to delete those accounts that negatively impact our well-being. This serves to protect our mental health from some negative effects.

If you check your network and there is always a news outlet, page, or friend that makes you feel bad, you can unfollow them or mute their content. If you do not wish to unfollow them, you can try to counterbalance the negativity. For instance, you might find it important to follow news channels that often report unfortunate events, but perhaps you could try to also follow accounts that highlight positive events (like The Happy News). Or, you can try to follow people that might discuss sad events, but that also share ways we can help and display their concrete actions to change the world. These steps can help you create a more balanced view of the world where you will not spiral into a negative mindset.

Lastly, you can also try to close accounts in some social media channels or delete some apps. For instance, perhaps you do not need ten apps / platforms. You can choose your favourites, the ones that provide you with more happiness and helpful information, and delete the others.

Practice self-compassion

To protect our mental health when engaging with social media, we can practice self-compassion. Try not to compare your account to those you see in the digital world. Social comparison can lead to self-image and self-esteem issues that do not reflect reality.

There will always be somebody that has more followers. On the other side of the world, there will always be somebody that seems more skilled at your hobby. Social media opens the gates to compare ourselves with literally every other person on the planet, and it can be overwhelming. We must keep in mind that each person has their journey; it is not a race, and some people might have started their journey before you, so it is okay to go at your own pace.

If you catch yourself being self-critical after seeing an account or post, ask yourself: "Is this something that I would say to a friend?". If I saw this account, would I tell my best friend that their account is awful and that they should stop posting? The most common answer is no. So then, what would you say to your friend? Perhaps you’d say, “your account is great, and this person’s account is also great. Their success doesn’t take away from yours, and maybe you can learn from each other.” Treating yourself like you would a friend can help you refrain from being overly critical of yourself and nurture a balanced self-image.

Social media business? Plan ahead

If you have a business or have a professional account, it might be challenging to separate yourself from social media. However, the above tips can still apply to you. You can indeed create a limit for yourself, which could be a scheduled part of your agenda.

For example, you can allot certain days and times for social media use. You do not need to spend every day behind your screen; you can choose a day to use tools to schedule the weekly content. Likewise, you can schedule one moment of the week to interact with the comments from your community. And, when doing so, you can try to use apps that are designed to block distractions. This way, you have more control over your social media use and can even organise your time more wisely to further develop your business.

Social media: Friend or foe?

Social media can harm our mental health, as we have discussed before. To protect ourselves against the adverse effects, we have to take concrete action and, bit by bit, improve our habits. Balance and moderation are key, and I hope that these tips can help you achieve just that.

Vassia  Sarantopoulou

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Vassia Sarantopoulou

Vassia Sarantopoulou is a Counselor-Psychotherapist with more than 15 years of experience, the Head Psychologist and founder of AntiLoneliness. AntiLoneliness offers individual and couples counseling, workshops and support groups, in...

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