If you live in the Netherlands, then in most cases you can get divorced in the Netherlands, regardless of your nationality. There are always exceptions - so before you start, it's best to check with a divorce lawyer.
If you can get divorced in the Netherlands, the divorce itself will take place under Dutch law. The fact that Dutch law applies to the divorce itself does not mean that Dutch law applies to all the various topics of the divorce. Being able to get divorced here only means that the Dutch courts can rule on your divorce.
You will need to determine which law applies to each of the various subjects that are dealt with during the divorce - these include the divorce itself, considerations about children, alimony, pensions, and the division of assets.
It may also be that Dutch law applies to the divorce, but that the law of another country applies to, for instance, maintenance or the division of the matrimonial property.
The applicable legal system matters because the financial consequences of marriage and divorce differ per country.
For example, if Dutch law applies to your matrimonial property and you did not arrange anything before or during your marriage (prenuptial agreement), and if you were married after January 1, 2018, it means you were married in a limited community of property. Everything you and your spouse acquired during the marriage (except inheritances and gifts) should be split in half in the event of divorce.
However, if a foreign law applies to the matrimonial property, the financial consequences in the event of divorce may differ from this 50-50 division under Dutch law.
The same applies to partner alimony and child maintenance. It may be that a foreign law applies to determining maintenance. In this case, you may not be entitled to maintenance or have only a limited right under that foreign law.
During the divorce, agreements must be made about the (division of) finances. This includes the division of the matrimonial property. In addition, in many divorces agreements are made about spousal support. Read more about when you can claim alimony. The agreements about the finances are recorded in a divorce agreement.
If you have children, you will also need to make arrangements on parental authority, (international) access arrangements and child support. These agreements about the children are laid down in a parenting plan.
If you're currently in the middle of a separation, here are four reasons why you should consider filing for divorce in the Netherlands: