“Thank you” is one of the first things parents teach their children to say. You were probably taught this as well, I know I was. So why do we, as adults, forget to say these simple two words so often in business? You may be thinking that, as a business owner, you have so many other important things to do that saying thank isn’t a top priority - but here is why it should be.
Here are a couple of reasons why you may not say “thank you” enough in your business:
Although it is sometimes easy to forget to say these words, it is extremely important to do so, especially as a small business owner.
There is actually no downside to saying thank you. Think about it, can you remember a time when someone thanked you for something and you didn’t like it? Humans crave acknowledgement and we feel validated when we receive it.
One tip: please don’t say thank you as a ploy or strategy to gain something, only do it if you really mean it. Sincerity is an integral part of being thankful and if your thank you isn’t sincere, it will show. Also, you should thank someone because you want to do it. Don’t hope, or expect, to then be thanked in return - it’s not about keeping score.
Now you understand the importance of thanking people often in your business. But who exactly should you be using these magic two words with?
As a business owner, you can thank the following people:
By thanking the people above, you are increasing your chances of growing your business and building rapport with your connections. You can instantly improve your network in this way.
There are many social situations where you can say thank you to someone. In your own business, you can say these two words when someone:
Saying thank you doesn’t have to cost a thing and it’s easy to do. However, you can spend a little money and give a small present, if you want to.
There are a couple of ways that you can thank someone:
However, the most important thing is that you do it. You should overthink the method too much - sometimes it’s best to just keep it simple.
Of course, it is always nice to thank people in a timely way and it is never too late. Do you know the expression, “Better late than never”? If you are thinking about someone who helped you with your business and you wish you would have thanked them for it, do it now.
When you thank people, you are showing your gratitude. This is an indirect bonus for you because feeling grateful feels good. Saying thank you acknowledges the other person, benefits your business, and is rewarding for you personally.
It may be difficult to measure exactly how saying thank you affects your business and I promise you, it does make a difference. The results may not be immediate and it is important to remember not to expect anything in return. Just trust that what goes around, comes around. Saying thank you is a habit and simply requires you to notice, and then acknowledge, the nice things people do for you and your business.
How do you like to say “thank you”? Share your thoughts and questions in the comments section below!