Invader Stu: The Dutch Love Seat

I am notorious for forgetting or losing my bike whenever I meet up with friends in Amsterdam. By now they all know that if we are going anywhere one of them will end up having to give me a lift on the back of their own bicycle.

This means two things:
One of them is going to get a flat back tire.
One of them is going to look like they are in a loving relationship with me.

This is because the rack on the back of a bicycle is often called the love seat in the Netherlands. It’s where your girlfriend or boyfriend sits (side saddle) when you are giving them a lift. It’s something you see a lot of young teenagers doing.

That’s why it looks very strange when you see two middle-aged British guys sharing a bicycle, one of them struggling to make it over every bridge due to the extra weight and the extra weight trying not to look terrified as his kneecaps pass dangerously close to every roadside bollard and parked car. At least it looks like a relationship that has lasted I guess.

Sitting on the Dutch love seat

Sitting side saddle is most common because sitting astride the metal rack is (I’ve discovered) not something that you can really call comfortable. I have once tried sitting on a child seat (on the back of a friend’s bike) which might sound like it should be slightly more comfortable than the metal rack but it was not.

In fact I think it was more painful and potentially limited my chances of having children myself. To put it lightly, my man parts felt every speed bump, pebble and hidden fault line deep beneath Amsterdam that we passed over.

The hop on

Another challenge of using the love seat is mastering the jump on. The easiest way to maintain balance is for the bike to already be in motion when the loved one (quite literally) hops on. This manoeuvre requires a strange sort of reverse / sideways jog followed by a light jump / hop / twist into the sitting position.

It is important to do this manoeuvre with as little motion as possible otherwise you risk throwing the cyclist off balance, causing them to veer off into the nearest canal. As a result, many of my "hop ons" have required more than one attempt.

The hop off

The hop off can be equally dangerous. It is important not to get your feet caught in the back wheel during the dismount or to jump into the path of another cyclist.

Don’t kick off with too much force either otherwise you’ll turn around to discover that your cyclist has gone off somewhere unexpected.

This makes every traffic light stop an exciting game of risk that could end in injury (to you or others). Especially since the "hop back on" that follows now has to be done surrounded by moving cyclists while crossing a road.

More experienced passenger / cyclist teams might not need to dismount for every brief stop but when you are an uncoordinated Englishman (such as myself) it is impossible to do so without gravity taking the opportunity to remind you who is in charge.

Maybe that’s another reason why they call it the love seat; because if you survive the experience together it brings you closer to each other. It’s a kind of trust exercise.

Do you ever give your friends a ride with your bicycle? Or are you the one that usually hops on?

Invader Stu is an accident prone Englishman who has been suffering from Dutch culture shock for the last ten years. Enjoy his stories, more of which can be found on Invading Holland.

Stuart B


Stuart B

An accident prone Englishman living in Holland since 2001. Still not great with the language but finds stampot lekker.

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