Marriage in the Netherlands

Getting married in the Netherlands is a pretty straightforward procedure. However, there are a number of bureaucratic hurdles which you have get past before you can tie the knot with your loved one.

Criteria for getting married

Before you even get into the details, you should find out whether or not you fulfill the criteria / requirements.

You are not allowed to enter into a marriage in the Netherlands if you:
(or your partner) are not registered in the local municipality
are already married or part of a registered partnership
are under the age of 18
want to marry a blood relative

If you fulfill these criteria then you can start the process.

Marriage notice (Ondertrouw)

The first thing you need to do is to give notice of your intention to marry (ondertrouw), at least two weeks before the ceremony itself. You can do this at your local municipality office, so long as you or your partner is officially registered at that office.

Note that once you have received this notice you have to have your marriage within 12 months, otherwise the notice becomes invalid and you will have to apply again.

There may be other documents required in this procedure, such a your birth certificate and proof that you have divorced from any previous marriages or partnerships.

Marriage ceremony

The ceremony must be performed by a registered and qualified member of the municipality. You will meet with this person some days before the ceremony.

In the Netherlands, you can choose to have your ceremony at a building specifically arranged for the purpose by the municipality, or have your ceremony at a location chosen by you and your partner, though this will cost extra.

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It is also possible to have a simplified ceremony for much cheaper, and there are certain times when it is possible to have your ceremony for free. However, these events usually only last a few minutes, have no music and only a small number of guests can be invited.

For more information you should visit the website of your local municipality.

Registering a marriage not held in the Netherlands

If you are arriving to the Netherlands already married to your partner, you are obliged to register the marriage with your local municipality.

In order to do this you will need to present a legalised or authenticated marriage certificate, and this procedure differs depending on the country in which you were married.

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